Melissa Ottum, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist | Registration Pending · Supervised by Jay Alarcon, LMFT #134460
A calm therapy room with an armchair and plants in soft daylight

Meet your therapist

Hi, I’m Melissa.

I’m an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist in San Diego. I bring empathy and a strength-based approach to my work with individuals and couples moving through anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, and life transitions.

I’m currently completing my EMDR Basic Training and practicing under clinical supervision as I work toward full licensure, so I bring both close guidance and current training to our work together.

MA, Marriage & Family Therapy

Alliant International University, 2026

EFT Externship Certificate

ICEEFT, 2025 · EMDR Basic Training in progress

Clinically supervised

Supervised by Jay Alarcon, LMFT #134460

Supportive Connections Community Services

A San Diego group practice

What shapes our work

A relational, trauma-informed approach

Approach

  • Attachment-Focused
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • EFIT for Individuals
  • EMDR-Trained
  • Trauma-Informed Relational Care

Areas of Focus

  • Couples & Relationship Distress
  • Trauma & Attachment Wounds
  • Anxiety & Overwhelm
  • Communication & Conflict
  • Self-Worth & Emotional Regulation
  • Life Transitions

Curious whether we're a fit?

A free 15-minute phone consultation is the simplest way to find out. No pressure, just a real conversation.